I've noticed a trend on this site. New people join and write a post that goes, "I'm thinking about leaving the city, and the other towns I'm interested in are A, B, and C. But how do I choose which is the best one for me?"
This is totally a fair question. And it's one of the questions Mari and I were exploring when we started this site in the first place.
But now I realize that there is only one real way to find a new town to call home: You must visit other…